Monday, September 3, 2007

Sept. 3, 2007

Happy Labor Day everyone! I hope you all are enjoying a very relaxing day off with friends & family or however you decided to spend your holiday!
Well my first trip back to the US and the return to Rome! I must say when I first got back to Rome it seemed a bit weird. I went from being back home where it was easy to do things, to communicate with people, and where I could just be more relaxed…to a place where I feel like I have to be more on my toes & am more confused that relaxed! It didn’t help I arrived tired and again had trouble getting the key out of my lock (olive oil helped again!). And then I used the toilet & ever since I can’t get the water to stop running (thank goodness it’s no where close to overflowing, but still annoying). At least I can use it because it’s basically constantly flushing! I emailed and called my landlady, but still no reply after at day. I hope to get that fixed soon.
I’m still trying to adjust back to the time here and slept in very late this morning - good thing I took the day off! Yesterday I slept for 5 hours in the afternoon when I got in…I originally laid down for a 2 or 3 hour nap. I’m hoping that tomorrow I’ll be okay for work, which is why I’ll have to cut this blog short and get to bed soon (it’s already past the time I had planned to go to sleep!).
Coming back to Rome this time was a bit easier. At least I know how to get around on the buses & metros and didn’t even have to look at my map at all today when I was going around town (although I still carry it with me always!). I also got two big things accomplished:
1) I got the new Vonage box to work (since I blew the fuse in the last one!), so now I can be connected with everyone back home again. Up until now the only time I called home was when I left my mom a voicemail on her birthday in July. Yes believe it or not I went 2 months without calling home! Today alone I talked to my mom & my sister! Yay!! If I went 2 months without talking to them, now that I’m connected things have to be a bit easier!
2) I got my annual bus/metro pass today! I was warned about the long lines to get things and everything taking forever here in Italy, and up until today I didn’t have too much of a problem with that. But at the place to get my pass I had to wait in line for over an hour (in a building with no air conditioning) because although they had about 10 windows for clerks, only 2 were opened. And then people were shouting at the clerks about stuff. And at one point the police came in and made an announcement about something (I have no clue what) and a lot of people got mad and were yelling stuff at the cops about the fact that it wasn’t written on the sign on the door. I was worried that once I got up to the front they would give me an application and tell me to come back later. Fortunately they gave me an application to fill out there, I gave them one picture and my passport and oh about 10 minutes later they gave me my card. At least now I don’t have to worry about buying a bus or metro ticket for the next year! I was also glad I decided to go get it on my day off & not after work, because then I would have probably waited and then they would close before I got up to the front.

Tonight I had to go get a gelato from my favorite place and take a walk through Piazza Navona and St. Peter’s Square. The temperature here is great too – in the upper 70’s and lower 80’s I believe. I have to walk around the city every now and then to remember why I like being here so much! ;-)
Well that’s in for now because it’s way past my bedtime!

Sept. 1, 2007 - Trip back to the US




September 1, 2007
Trip back to the US
Well my trip back to the US didn’t start out so well. My suitcase was delayed in arriving to Orlando and I didn’t get it until Saturday night, which was a day after I arrived! As things seem to go with my trips though…once I got the suitcase, things were much better!
The whole purpose for my trip back to the US was for me to attend training in Orlando (at a hotel in Disney World) from Monday afternoon (August 27th) thru Wednesday afternoon. Since I was already in the US, I decided to make a short trip back home as well.
I decided to arrive early to recover from the jet lag & to be able to have some relaxing time in the Florida sun before training started. Unfortunately there were thunderstorms that came through every late afternoon/evening for several hours Friday through Sunday, so I didn’t even make it to the pool until Monday morning before my training started. A couple of my coworkers arrived Saturday evening, so I went to Animal Kingdom with them on Sunday which was fun.
It was interesting to go back home even after this short period of being away. First of all it was different being in an airport where everything was in English and basically only English was being spoken around me. I was actually glad that my layover going to Orlando was in Atlanta…in the South. It was great to be able to say ‘yes ma’am’ and ‘yes sir’ and to hear it back! I was born and raised in the South and no matter where I go there will always be a piece of me that will be that ‘Southern girl’. When I was in the Atlanta airport I ended up sitting at a table with this guy from South Carolina and we talked a bit and he asked where I was from. I told him I was living in Rome, blah , blah, blah and when I got up to leave he told me ‘You take care of yourself in Rome, okay!?!’ And of course my response was ‘Yes sir I will!’
Another thing was that I’ve gotten use to in Rome is the price of things being with tax included…and I realized I like that better than having it added on at the end. I know I’ve gone my whole life the other way, but I like going to the counter knowing exactly what I will have to pay (and no I’m not good at doing the tax in my head!) Walking around Downtown Disney on Saturday I also noticed something that I knew, but never really paid attention to before…it is true that America is overweight. Going from Europe where it isn’t as much of a problem to the US, you notice the difference. (Not to offend anyone, but I’m not pointing out anything not already known.)
Seeing my colleagues at training was great! This was just training for partners and managers, so I didn’t get to see all the colleagues we worked with but did see many. This is the only partner & manager training for 2007 that people on assignments outside the US can go to, so I also got to talk to the other expats. Even the little things were great…like being around people who actually realize that you got a haircut or that you got more tan. Of course I did get told I’m already “Euro”, but to me I don’t think that’s necessarily a bad thing. ;-)
I went back to Houston/Wallis to see family and friends on Wednesday night thru this morning, which really wasn’t much time. I am still glad I went though, even if it was for a short time. I spent one day just running errands and barely got them all in. It was the first time I have driven in 2 months too, so that was a little weird at first. I was glad to see the family & friends that I did see in the short amount of time. I had to keep reminding myself that I still have an apartment in Rome because going around running errands and visiting with family & friends it almost felt like I’ve never moved. I also had to get in some of my favorite food I’ve been missing – PF Chang’s, Chuy’s (Mexican food), and Vincek’s BBQ!! I also made a trip to Wal-Mart with my dad to pick up a few things I haven’t been able to find around here. I ended up with my suitcase 15 lbs over the limit, so maybe I brought back too much stuff! Oh and my Uncle took me for a ride on his new Harley – that was fun too!
Although I do miss home, I am a bit excited to return to Rome. One because I’m tired of living out of a suitcase for over 2 weeks and also because I’m ready to get back to getting accustomed to life in Rome. I think I got the relaxation I needed and the training I went to really did motivate me from the work aspect to want to do my best at work, so I’m hoping when I return I will have a client schedule and can get to do actual work!
I decided to take Monday off (Monday is not a holiday for me in Italy) to recover from the flight & to do some errands I need to in Rome. Hopefully I’ll be ready to go bright & early Tuesday morning.
I better go, my battery is about to die! I still have several hours left to go on the flight, so I guess I better get some sleep!
Ciao!

Sept 1, 2007 - Part 2 of my August Vacation


September 1, 2007
Trip to the Netherlands (aka Holland)

I’m writing on yet another flight, but this one is back to Rome. I meant to blog over the past week, but just didn’t make time to do it. So here over a week later I’m blogging on a plane once again.
I spent August 17 – 24th in the Netherlands, which is also referred to has Holland. As I mentioned before, I didn’t really plan that much in advance for this trip but decided to go there because 1) I knew it was a place where there are typically layovers when flying to the US & thus a better chance for me to get my flights covered by the company since I was going to the US for a training class & 2) because I knew people from Houston living there (doing similar 2 year assignments like I am). They were generous enough to let me stay with them while I was in there too! (Thanks Jose & Claudia and Jeff!) I spent Friday in Amsterdam, Sat. morning – Tuesday evening in Den Haag with trips to various places including to Belgium on Saturday, and then back in Amsterdam Tuesday evening through Friday morning.
Prior to going to Holland, there were only a few things that I knew about it - tulips in the spring, windmills, people like to ride their bikes everywhere, wooden shoes, colder weather, lots of canals, and prostitution & smoking weed (aka pot) are legal there and most of that occurs in the Red Light District. Now after visiting, I have confirmed that those are all true, but here are some other observations (or more info on the above):
1) Although I knew about them using bikes, I didn’t realize the extent to it until I got there! Bicycles are everywhere! Hundreds parked at train stations, dad’s riding around with a kid in front of them & behind them and groceries in these bags over the back wheel. Kids, moms, dads, business people, elderly people – it doesn’t matter their age, gender, status… they all ride bikes. Any type of weather – they ride bikes! Any time of day you go out on the street & you will see someone riding a bike down the street. Oh & they are not nice, new bikes either. They are very ‘old school’ and I saw several that were spray painted florescent pink and another in green and others in just awful colors. I think it has to do with the fact that stealing bikes is somewhat of a sport there apparently, so if you have a nice bike you would be the first target for this ‘sport’. And because of the way the handle bars are, they always look so prim & proper riding there bikes with their backs straight, etc. I was going to rent a bike and ride around Amsterdam, but the day I was going to rent one it was suppose to rain so I decided not to (in the end, it didn’t rain anyway!). There are tons of places to rent bikes too. So the Dutch (people in Holland) ride bikes a lot – fact! I took some pictures of the ones parked outside Den Haag and Amsterdam Central Stations, but you have to see it with your own eyes to believe it!
2) Cold weather – that I found out quickly & the hard way. It’s not super cold, but colder than Rome or Houston. I was in Venice prior to flying to Amsterdam and the temperature when I left was about 98F. I was wearing a t-shirt, some pants that I rolled up to look like capri pants, & flip-flops. I got to Amsterdam around 7:30pm, got a taxi to the PwC Amsterdam office to pick up my friend’s apartment key that he left there for me, & then went to his apartment. I was having problems opening the front door to his apartment & was locked out of my blackberry (as mentioned previously, I’m having issues with even simple things!), so I decided to walk to somewhere to call my friend to make sure there wasn’t some sort of “trick” to opening his door. So I headed down the street & then decided I needed to roll down my pant legs. I was still cold and then actually paid attention to what the people around me where wearing and realized they were wearing jackets, down-filled vests, scarves, etc. So I was the only crazy person walking around in flip-flops! Needless to say the rest of the time I was in Holland I wasn’t wearing flip-flops & I wore the blazer I brought with me! I think most of the time the temperature was in the 60’s, which for a Texas girl is absurd for August!
3) I went with some of my friends and a group of people to the Red Light District on Sunday night. I think I read & heard enough about it to not be completely ‘jaw dropped’ about everything, but it was still a bit odd. The prostitutes rent their rooms where they stand in their lingerie in the front window trying to attract the men walking by for their ‘business’. For most there were red lights actually lighting up the windows (thus the red light district). Each room had a small bed, sink, bathroom & not much else (or at least not from what I could tell walking by). When they are doing their ‘business’ they close the curtains & then open them back up again when they are done. There are some streets where the width is so small basically just 1 person can walk at a time & the windows are on both sides. Down those streets I just wanted to get to the end! In the Red Light District there are also tons of shops selling anything related to sex & drugs (esp. pot) that you can think of and live ‘sex shows’. There are also “coffee shops” all over where you can go & order and some pot & mushrooms (and not the kind you get at any normal restaurant…these might make you see some crazy things!) As a side note, whenever in Holland if you want to get coffee go to a cafĂ© not a coffee shop, or you might smell some funny stuff in there! The whole coffee shop thing is in all of Holland, not just the Red Light District. If any of you are wondering, NO I did not partake in any of these activities – all I did was walk thru the Red Light District. Some things I found odd about the Red Light District were the day care in the middle right between the ‘windows’ a church in the middle. Also most of the ladies in the windows did not seem to be Dutch.
4) Since things like prostitution & smoking weed are legal, you would think that the city would pretty much be chaos, but it isn’t. I had to actually make sure I crossed at crosswalks (unlike in Rome)! Also my friends told me that the Dutch do not believe in drinking and driving…even if it’s one drink (they will ride bikes, but not drive a car). They also have series of traffic cameras set up along the freeway where it will measure the distance between to calculate if you are speeding and if so you will get a ticket in the mail (and it’s not like in Houston where the cameras are marked). Overall the city seems orderly & clean…but then again I wasn’t in the Red Light District really late at night/early in the morning.
5) Dutch, the language, to me isn’t that pretty on the ear (sorry if any of you speak Dutch!). To me it sounded like English with extra letters and them sounding like they are hocking a loogie (or maybe it’s a hairball stuck in their throats). I was in a museum and heard someone speaking Italian behind me & just though ‘Oh Italian is such a pretty language!’ Now I actually want to learn Italian even more when I get home & am grateful I don’t have to learn Dutch! The good this was that almost all Dutch speak English too, so I really didn’t have a communication problem (except not being able to say the street names!).
6) I did see a lot of farmland, livestock & windmills as we were driving through Holland and as I was on the train. We even took some pictures with some (that was one of our challenges during a road trip!)
7) Climbing Dutch stairways can be considered an exercise routine!! In an email my friend sent me, he told me he was on the 3rd floor of a building and he had “Dutch stairs” in his building. And just put “Yeah, have fun with those!” I really didn’t know what he meant until I opened the front door to his building & looked up at the staircase in front of me! They are VERY steep, the stairs are small, and when you stand on one the next is about mid-shin. There were about 50 stairs to get to his apartment & let me tell you getting my huge suitcase up & down that WAS a workout!
8) The Dutch eat fries with EVERYTHING! Most meals we ate came with a side of fries. And they dip them in a mayonnaise type sauce (Fritz sauce) instead of ketchup.

Although I stayed in Den Haag several days, I didn’t really see much of the town because we went everywhere else. On Saturday I went to Bruges and Brussels in Belgium with Claudia and Jose. They have a car, so we just drove there. It’s crazy how in just a couple hours you can be in a different country. They didn’t seem all that different from Holland. I did do some of the ‘Belgium’ things like have waffles, get chocolate, and drink beer (at home I would never drink beer, but in Belgium & Holland I had it and it wasn’t that bad!). We kind of did a whirlwind tour of Bruges, just having lunch there & looking at some of the landmarks. Then we went to Brussels and looked around there in the rest of the afternoon & evening. One of the most fun things we did in Brussels was go to this place called Mini Europe that has miniatures of main landmarks of most of the European countries. It also had where you could press the button to play the anthem and make things on the models move. I think it was built for kids, but it seemed that all the adults were having more fun than the kids! It’s a place that if you went to by yourself it wouldn’t be that fun, but since it was a group of us and we were taking pictures of each other etc. it was a blast. Also for dinner we were joined by another couple from Houston that just moved to Den Haag (again doing a 2 year assignment there similar to what I’m doing).
On Sunday afternoon we went to a Latin Festival in a city close to Amsterdam. Claudia & Jose’s friend who’s originally from Mexico was dancing in it. It was interesting going to a festival in another country (especially a Latin festival…meaning Latin America…in Holland). The biggest thing I found funny was that although there was Mexican dancing & mariachi bands, there was no Mexican food! I actually had some Turkish food there! The dancing was really good & the weather turned out great that day too!
Monday afternoon the 3 of us decided to take a ride to the islands in Northern Holland, but we didn’t really plan ahead and when we got there we found out that the next ferry was going to leave in another hour and that if we took that one we would be stuck on the islands because there would be no more ferries coming back that night. So we decided to make the best of the situation & took a ride through the country side and then stopped at a couple small towns along the way back. Also Claudia decided to make a challenge for us to take pictures with as much livestock as we could, so I actually went in a pasture with sheep to take a picture with them! We went to so many places I don’t even know the name of too. We would just stop & take pictures…and I can not remember the names of them all!
On Tuesday I went to the Open Air Museum in Arnhem, which was about an hour train ride & then 15 minute bus ride from Den Haag. The Museum was more like a park with probably about 20 different house and building in a large open area with paths. The houses were set up like they would be in Holland during different periods and you could walk through different areas of the houses. They also had a building with people weaving in it, a blacksmith making different things, fresh bread baking that you could buy, display of the equipment of how cheese is made, etc. They also had gardens and playgrounds set up like in the ‘old days’ and had several restaurants & cafes. I spent several hours there and enjoyed it a lot! I was very glad that the weather was fairly warm and it didn’t rain!
Wednesday & Thursday I spent exploring Amsterdam on my own. I had a guide book I used to pick the main places I wanted to go & other than that I just kind of made my plans as I went along. Some of the things I did were running & walking through Vondel Park, which is a HUGE park that they have. It was so relaxing going through there & is a place where the Dutch go for picnics and just to relax. I also went to several museums including the Rijks Museum and the Van Gogh Museum. I also went to the Anne Frank house, which was probably one my favorite things of the whole trip. I’ve read the Diary of Anne Frank in school and found it interesting, but going through the house and seeing all the places that she wrote about was something else. There were also videos of the secretary who brought the families their supplies of food talking about what happened and even video of Anne Frank’s dad. I also went and saw Rembrandt’s house (the painters). That was interesting because it was set up as it would have been when he lived there with all the artwork & his painting supplies, etc. Those were the only “big” places I went to & since I spent several hours in each place it took up some time. Also since I wasn’t on a set schedule I slept in a lot too. J
I also went back to Den Haag on Thursday night to have dinner with some of the people there since it was one of the girl’s (from Houston) birthday. I even got to see the PwC Den Haag office, which was cool to see how different it is compared to Houston and Rome. They have an open bar at the top floor every Thursday evening there, which doesn’t happen in Houston or Rome! It’s probably the most different than the Rome office since our office there is not modern at all and is so much smaller.
I think the part I enjoyed the most about the whole trip was being able to hang out with people that I know and not having to travel alone! It was great visiting with them, traveling with them, and laughing with them. Overall I had a great time!
I took lots of pictures that I'll post later this week (it's getting too late to do it tonight!)

August 24, 2007 - Part 1 of my August Vacation

August 24, 2007

I’m typing this as I’m somewhere over the ocean on a flight from Amsterdam to Orlando with a layover in Atlanta. I decided to take advantage of “Ferragosto” & the Italian tradition of taking a long vacation in August. Well I decided to take it after the urging of many co-workers and my Italian Global Mobility contact that said t would be best if I take some time off in August. My vacation didn’t start off so well, but thank goodness it did get better!
I guess I am getting use to living in Italy because on Tuesday night I had to go for one last piece of pizza & some gelato (because now I don’t want to eat it anywhere else!) & found myself sitting in a couple piazzas trying to get just a little bit more of Rome in before I left. And even though I was leaving for vacation, I found myself not really wanting to leave because I felt there is so much more in Rome for me to see and many things I really enjoy there! Now about a week & a half after leaving - I do miss it! I guess that’s a good sign that I’m adjusting.
August 15th is a holiday in Italy (Feast of the Assumption) and the day I started my vacation. I had a ticket for a train to Padova, Italy (in Northern Italy) for an 8:50am train. As I always do, I was up late packing the night before & woke up a few minutes later than planned. But that was okay because I wasn’t that far behind on schedule so figured I would catch my train no problem. So I lug my big suitcase & backpack outside my door, go to lock my door & am ready to go catch my bus to the train station. So I lock the door - an easy task…I’ve done it a million times. Well apparently I need to take classes on how to lock & unlock doors in Europe because lately I’ve had tons of issues with this simple task! Well I did lock the door okay, but getting the key out of the lock was another issue. I have no idea what the problem was, but I could NOT get the key out! I tried all kinds of things (including putting olive oil on a q-tip & putting it around the key thinking it would help it come out!), but nothing seemed to work. I spent over 45 minutes just standing at my door trying to get it out! About the time I was suppose to catch my train, I finally got it to come out! (Oh and there was a whole lot of pleading with God going on before that point!) So then I take my stuff down & catch a bus - which was a challenge in itself because despite my attempt to pack ‘lightly’ and using my ‘feather light’ suitcase, my suitcase was HEAVY! Try to take a suitcase that is heavy and about half your size on a crowded bus in Rome - it’s not fun, but I did get there. And luckily it is very easy to switch your reservations for the rain and there were many going to Padova, so I didn’t have to wait long.
I’m really enjoy the train rides now, especially when they go thru the countryside and the Tuscany region of Italy. You can see so much from the windows of the train & the ones in Italy (the fast ones) are very comfortable & clean. I was on the train for about 4 hrs and it went by very quickly and I even got some reading done! I read this book call “La Bella Figura - A Field Guide To The Italian Mind” that a friend gave me before I left for Italy & I loved it. It is written by an Italian (Beppe Severgnini) and he talks about various things in Italy and traits that Italians have. Now that I’ve been in Italy for a couple months, I could relate to many & some parts had me cracking up! I’ll share some of my favorite excerpts with you in another blog.
One thing about this trip is that although I did book everything several weeks before I left, I didn’t really plan all the details and figured I’d just figure it out as I go. I knew I would catch a train to Padova, then catch a taxi or bus to my hotel in the small town of Abano Terme next to it by following the instructions on the hotel’s website, then I would stay at the hotel enjoying the pool & spa at the hotel until Friday, then catch a taxi or bus to Venice where I would catch my plane to Amsterdam. In Amsterdam I had plans to stay at a friend’s apartment (he was out of town for work unfortunately) for 1 night. Then I would catch a train early Sat. morning to spend several days in Den Haag with some friends living there (doing an international assignment like me). Then I would head back to Amsterdam to see the city there until this morning (Friday) when I would fly out. I didn’t look up the exact bus numbers or anything like that…or even look on the map to see where they were all located, but just figured I’d go along and ask people for help when needed. I really didn’t do too much research about Amsterdam or the Netherlands (aka Holland) either, and just figured I’d take a tour book & figure it out as I went along. So there was some wasted time & me carrying my luggage further than I thought (and in Italy it was about 98F when I left, so it would have been hot walking around even without all my luggage). I was luckily that I found people to help me along the way & I am pretty patient so I don’t mind waiting. Of course I must admit waiting on a hot bus when I got to Padova was starting to get to me, but I was too cheap to pay for a taxi. Also on Sat. when I was suppose to meet my friends despite me waking up early, I still missed the tram to the train station (because I was trying to figure out which way I needed to go & where the stop was as the tram I needed passed by…not realizing it was the one I needed & since it was early on a Sat. only 2 went every hour). Oh and then I got to the train station in Den Haag & realized that I did not have a specific meeting place to meet my friends & I was locked out of my blackberry for several days (use it for my mobile phone & to check emails) because I forgot to write down the pin number and the one I have now requires it anytime you turn it on (like when you have to turn it off when on the plane & then on when you arrive!). Plus I didn’t even have there cell numbers to call them. So yes poor planning on my part and some wasted time, but over an hour later of the original meeting time they found me (I felt bad too for them having to wait!). But live & learn…that’s my motto live & learn. There is a balance between being super structured on trips where you are so stressed about making sure you are on schedule and get everything done vs. being so carefree you waste time and don’t get to see it all. I’m still trying to find that balance apparently.
Back to my vacation details…
I arrived at my hotel in Abano Terme around 3pm on Wednesday & stayed there until early Friday afternoon. I found this place on the internet & was able to get a package that included meals & some spa treatments for a very reasonable price. I wanted to go to this area because I’ve heard about the thermal springs that are suppose to be very healthy for you (only 2 places in Italy have the natural thermal springs where they have the spas to do mud baths, etc. I was told). I read online that this place wasn’t really for young singles if you wanted a lot of action, but that was okay with me because what I was looking for was some relaxation & sun at an affordable price. But I must say that even though I knew this, I was a bit surprised at first to see the crowd staying there. I saw maybe 2 or 3 families with younger kids, maybe 3 people there close to my age & the majority were probably retired couples (not saying that’s bad!). The lady that gave me my massage said that she doesn’t see many people my age there, but thought it was a good idea to get treatments like the mud baths early when it can help vs. later in life when it can just maybe help with the pain. Also what surprised me is that I heard mostly Italian with some French & I think German. I think the Italians (and maybe others) can even get some of the spa treatments paid for by their insurance so they go for a week or so for medical reasons.
The town where my hotel was located was a cute little Italian town. There are tons of hotels all centered around these thermal springs with people flocking to them for dips in the pools & the spa treatments. So there are little shops set up all within walking distance & all the hotels have bikes you can use if you want to ride around. The town was very different than Rome - bikes instead of scooters, very quiet & laid back, and in the evenings there wasn’t much going on except in hotels that had bars/dancing. So I spent most of the time by the pool (but it closed at 7pm!) and then catching up on my sleep!
They had about 4 pools all with this thermal spring water & the only difference in the pools other than the shape was the temperature of the water. The big pool (and coolest temp) had jet in it that they would randomly put on during the day (meaning at times half the pool would have air jets going for an hour or so), it had a couple bikes in the water you could use them underwater & it had these huge faucet looking things that would spray out water that would massage your shoulders & neck if you stood under it. It was very nice & very relaxing. I spent most of the time laying out by the pool rather than in it though. It was quite enjoyable!
I did have several reminders that I was in Europe vs. North America though! The hotel was very strict in all their handouts & signs that you were to wear the white robes in your room for the spa & the blue ones for the pool area, you were suppose to shower before you entered the pool, & it said swimming caps were required (but no one followed this one), and there were dress codes for eating in the dining area (I.e. no shorts in the dining area, etc.). BUT with all these rules, the one big different vs. in the States is that apparently tops for the females are optional in and around the pool! I know that there are many beaches in Europe that are topless beaches etc., but I just didn’t realize that at hotel pools where there are families etc. that this was the case. There weren’t many women doing it & when it was more crowded they put their tops back on, but I was just a little shocked at first. And NO I did not participate in this activity (that is to answer anticipated questions).
Another thing that was very different was the spa experience itself. First I had to have an exam with a Doctor in order to even do the thermal baths. I did that on Thursday morning & it didn’t take that long - just ask me if I was one any meds, if I had any heart problems or aches, then checked heart beat, blood pressure, lungs, etc. He said my blood pressure was a bit low (probably because I hadn't had anything to eat or drink at that point) , so he told me they wouldn't put the mud too hot because that would lower it more & he suggested I at least drink some coffee before. I ended up having a full hour until my appt, so I had a full breakfast & was much better.So first I had my mud bath. So this Italian lady did it & I have no idea what she said half the time (well she didn't say much anyway). So they have this spa bed they put this canvas like blankets on and then they put two piles of mud on it. So I sat down & she put some on my back & then I laid down in one of the piles & then my feet when in the other pile. I thought they would put mud everywhere, but they only put it on my joints, back, feet & right hand (not sure why only 1 hand), but later I realized it was in the places the Dr. circled on the diagram when I met with him. So then she wraps the blanket around me so I looked like a mummy & I laid there for probably 20 min. And oh my gosh I was sweating like crazy after a couple minutes! But it did feel really good. And the room was far from any of the spas in North America. There was no AC, just a big window opened (with blinds of course) & then just a curtain in the doorway between the room and the hallway. The walls were just white tiled walls & floors. So then when that was done I went to the shower area in the room & the lady sprayed me down to get all the mud bath. Yes you just stand there in your birthday suit as she sprays you down! Then I sat in this tub thing in the room for about 15 min that was filled with the thermal spring water & they had jet things in it.And I found out later the mud they use comes from some lakes around there & then they put it in big basins with the thermal water & let it sit for months & it forms some sort of algae that's suppose to be good for you.So after I drank some sort of herbal drink (had one before too) I went upstairs to the massage room. I only had a 28 min massage, so kind of short but still good.Ahh and the massage – they definitely don't believe in 'toweling' like they do in the North America (for those of you who haven’t been to a spa before – in the Spa in the US & Canada, they always cover your ‘private’ areas with towels…even if you are getting something that involves them using the shower.). At this place you just lay there in your birthday suit & then she used a towel but only one & would only cover small areas. I'm so glad I had a female & not male this time because I don't think I could have relaxed as much if I had a guy! (Especially just laying there with my whole top half exposed during the massage or just laying there with nothing!). Oh & the room had all the lights on & no candles or anything like that like they usually do back home. It did have AC & she had music on, but it was just a radio station that she changed several times. The massage was good, just very different from back home. I'm a very 'modest' person, so this definitely made me step out of my 'comfort zone', but I still enjoyed it. Guess it helped that 1) the people doing it were females and 2) I know there is no one that was there that I know & will probably not see any of them again! ;-)

I’m starting to get a bit sick at the stomach from typing on the plane, so I’ll close for now and write more about my Holland experiences later.